6 Sex Essentials For The Perfect One Night Planned

What sex essentials do you travel with? Our sex bag includes 6 key items.
What sex essentials do you take with you?

Which sex essentials do you carry with you, babe? Now that you’re ready to get back out there, you’re probably also very ready for a little something-something more.

It’s been a while, so let’s think back to when you wanted to go home with someone and hesitated because you didn’t have your “essentials.” Remember that? Yeah – me, too! So let’s do a little planning, put some intention into it, and own our power, babe!

Whether it’s a big night out with my friends, a romantic weekend getaway with my bae, or simply those must-have items I always have in my nightstand, here’s my list of 6 sex essentials I recommend so you’re #proudlyprepared for your best One Night Planned.

1. Condoms

Lovability’s vegan, vulva-friendly condoms are a must-have in your sexy bag so YOU are always prepared (even if he thinks he is). These ultra-thin, lubricated condoms are not only the BEST condoms I’ve ever used (IMO) but they come in this cute AF tin that help organize and protect your condoms – and ultimately YOU (STI’s anyone? No, thank you!). And for anyone who’s a little shy about carrying condoms, the reusable tin is definitely an added bonus.

2. Lube Lube Lube

No product screams “sex essentials” more than lube, right? They say “you can never have too much lube” (true) but one of MY favorite things about this moisturizing, water-based lubricant is that it’s packaged small AND highly effective. I can take this on-the-go-sized, 1 oz. tube with me and then only need just a few drops for some silky fun.

Hallelujah for Hallelubeyah, babe!

3. Fresh Pair Of Undies 

A fresh pair of undies is essential for any overnight sex bag.
 Aqua Original-Rise Thong by Hanky Panky – $22

I love me some Hanky Panky thongs. How convenient that they come all rolled-up and easy to throw in your bag when you need that fresh, clean pair (hint: after they’re washed, just wrap a hair tie around them and you’re ready to go).

Aqua is my fav but they come in sooo many amazing colors (and shapes) — one is sure to be yours.

4. Mini Vibe

Crave's Bullet is a must-have for any overnight sex bag.
Crave Bullet – $59

Mmmm k, this isn’t any ordinary bullet — it packs a PUNCH. It’s also waterproof, body-safe, and can hold a charge that lasts longer than me (and that’s sayin’ something). I love throwing this baby in my sex bag not only because it’s cute AF (it’s often confused with lipstick), but because I know I have a reliable source of pleasure heading my way.

5. Toothbrush + Toothpaste

These next two items may not be very sexy on their own, but they’re part of my on-the-go bag when I’m planning an intimate night out.

One of my favorite toothbrushes is this Bamboo Toothbrush – made of bamboo, not plastic. How eco-friendly is that? The BPA-free, compostable brush helps to eliminate one of the most prevalent forms of ocean plastic pollution. And not only is it plant-based, but it looks chic AF.

And for toothpaste…how cool are these Natural Toothpaste Tablets?!  No need to bring a whole tube with you. Even those travel sizes are too much, not to mention a total waste of plastic. Instead, pop a fluoride-free toothpaste tablet into your mouth and start brushing – for a fresh, clean feeling without plastic waste!

6. Personal Wipes

Throw 2 or 3 of our individually-wrapped personal wipes into your bag for a quick freshen-up and/or easy cleanup (for you and your partner) after you’ve had some fun. I love that they are body-safe and eco-friendly — and pH balanced, too. What else could your beautiful vulva want?


That’s my list of sex essentials when I want my best one night planned. Any items you’d like to add that are in you sexy bag? If so, let us know in the comments below 🙂


About The Author

Inventor of The WaterSlyde, a revolutionary, patented feminine hygiene device / stimulator, and co-owner of Lovability, Maureen Pollack (@maureen.pollack) believes in removing the stigma surrounding sexual health and personal hygiene. She is also an intimacy coach, helping empower women in all stages of life to embrace intimacy through coaching and lifestyle products. A book and feature film about Maureen’s journey as a “mompreneur” are currently in pre-production.

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