Compiled by Maud Purinton
Holidays are just around the corner and you may be wondering what’s the best gift to get your sister, girl-friends, partner/s or yourself!
Look no further. Pleasure is the ultimate gift that keeps giving and we have some great products, toys and recommendations for this holiday season from our badass girl-team at Lovability.
Sex Ritual Candle by by MagicHourAstrology ($24.00)
Let’s be real: everyone loves candles, plus this candle is from a small business owner! It’s a double win in my book. Darcy recommends getting one that has great aromatherapy and this soy wax handmade candle is the perfect gift!
Awaken Arousal Oil with CBD by Foria ($48.00)
This topical oil uses 100% all-natural and organic botanicals that awakens sensation and delivers pleasure for all vulva owners. It also benefits those who have vaginismus, endometriosis, menopause challenges and other pelvic and genital pain as it soothes and decreases pain.
“It’s both relaxing and stimulating, and I love how natural it feels,” adds Liza.
Yourboxbox ($39.95, monthly subscription)
This box has a whole assortment of fun sexy gifts ranging from candles, vibrators, and sex-positive reads! This woman-owned company is all about helping you get your “O”.
Veronica recommends getting one for your friends. “This product is perfect if you aren’t quite sure what to get a friend. It includes all kinds of self-care: sex toys, candles, bath salts and treats! It’s great!”
Beaded Sensual Glass Dildo by Lovehoney ($19.99)
With over 400 5 Star Reviews this dildo is the perfect gift, it’s also 50% off right now! This fun dildo is perfect for G-Spot stimulation or prostate stimulation, it’s also hypoallergenic, waterproof, latex and phthalate free and safe to use with all lubricants!
Liza loves this toy “because the way that its ribbed/grooved feels ~amazing~ whether you ride it, play with it, or just leave it in one place while you use a vibrator. And the weight is perfect!”
Pillo by Dame ($95.00)
A sexy gift you can leave out on your bed—no embarrassment required. This pillow is designed for sex with its soft but firm wedge allowing you to get in the perfect angles. Featuring a water resistant liner, soft cotton cover and grabbable handles, this pillow is a must-have in the bedroom.
Elizabeth says: “Another sexy gift that is definitely on my wishlist this year is Pillo by Dame. I’m sick and tired of having to fold my lumpy target pillows up to get good angles during the deed. An ergonomic wedge pillow is exactly what I need in bed. Plus, Dame’s a great company and I’m always happy to support them.”
Ohmyg by Ioda Toys ($159.00)
Recently back in stock, this toy is the quietest G-spot vibrator on the market! The only vibrating part on this great toy is it’s unique “pearl” that is created to directly massage your G-spot. It is also body safe as it’s made with medical grade silicone.
Maureen recommends this amazing toy. “If I’m looking for a great g-spot stimulator, or if I’m looking to gift a friend who I happen to know loves internal toys, The ohmyg by ioba toys is AHHHHMAZING!”
Tor 2 Vibrating Couples’ Ring by Lelo ($139.00)
This gift is great for your male partner! This cock ring delivers pleasure for you and your partner during intercourse with 6 vibrating settings and a fully flexible ring that fits all sizes.
Darcy recommends cock rings with vibrating bullets saying: “Cock rings are fun for both you and your partner! You both get the pleasure. And what’s better than giving someone a gift that you also get to enjoy!”
Kinky Me Softly Bondage Collection by Rianne S ($49.99)
Getting kinky can seem intimidating, but not with this kit! Ideal for beginners, this all-inclusive kit gives those you love a taste of different types of sensation and play. Made with the beautiful black and purple, what’s not to love? Our social media babe Julieta highly recommends it as a travel pack, taking kink on the go.
FabFitFun Box ($49.99)
Boxes you can customize! This is the perfect self-care box for any of your friends. They include beauty, wellness, fitness and home items to make you feel like your best self.
Veronica recommends getting this all-around wellness box for friends or family. “If you want to give someone variety without giving them something too sexy, I would recommend a FabFitFun Box. I get one for my sister every year and she loves it.”
Vesper by Crave ($69.00)
This stainless steel external vibrator makes a bold statement, and we promise you will not want to leave the house without this hot accessory.
Elizabeth raves about this fun toy. “My favorite and most giftable sex toy would have to be the Vesper vibrator necklace. It’s something I’ve adored for a long time. I’m a firm believer that people should be empowered and proud as sexual beings, and this unique piece let’s us do just that, but discreetly. I’m all for giving pleasure products as gifts, but I also like to give people things that they can actually use. Vesper checks both of those boxes, so for me it’s an ideal gift for any of my sexually empowered friends!”
Sparkle Butt Plug by Crystal Delights ($34.99)
Butt play? In style. Crystal Delights butt plugs are made with glass & real Swarovski crystals to truly shine bright like a diamond. These are a delight to wear during masturbation, or a shiny treat for your partner to look at during partnered play. Julieta loves this for adding a personal touch of style to your exploration.
Discover Gift Box by We-Vibe ($225)
Julieta writes: “This is my absolute favorite box to recommend as a gift for those who are beginners in sex toys, games, and play. A vibrator, butt plug, and even dice games – this kit has it all. Plus, what an exciting way to open each one with a partner. Don’t miss out on this!”
The WaterSlyde by Lovability ($35.00 + get a FREE hair wrap towel, while supplies last)
Special Holiday Offer! 
Not familiar with the Bathtub Technique?
Last but not least, we can’t stop gushing about our favorite bath time friend, and you won’t either! This body safe, hands-free device attaches to the head of your bathtub faucet for maximum bath time pleasure and fun – solo or with a partner.
As a special holiday offer, you’ll also receive a free hair wrap towel (an $18 value) when you buy The WaterSlyde at lovabilityinc.com. Nice!
Maud says: “My personal recommendation is The WaterSlyde with its magical and utterly unique external stimulation.”
You can’t go wrong with any of these gifts. Let us know in the comments which are your favorites this holiday season!
A big THANK YOU to our incredible team of contributing writers for their thoughtful suggestions: Maud Purinton (who generously compiled the ideas), Elizabeth Mason, Liza Brilliant, Veronica Mohesky, Darcy Rae, and Julieta Chiaramonte.
